This is The Journey where Silent Bond wrote Between a Father and His Son
• You Are His First Hero
Someone is paying attention to you.
Not judging. Not expecting. But loving, marveling, and in quiet awe.
Your son admires you not just because you are taller.
But because, in his small world, you are the first giant to him.
You are his idol, his hero, his protector.
He does not know how difficult your day was.
He does not know what EMI stands for or what burden weighs upon your shoulders.
What he sees is the way you face life, the way you treat people, whether you spend time with him or not.
He sees when you yell…
He sees when you remain calm in the chaos…
He sees when you smile at his mother…
He notices when you choose the hard road instead of the easy road.
He's not just seeing. He's becoming.
And one day the man he becomes will be the man you are today.
"You're not raising a boy. You're shaping a soul."
• The Lessons He Never Forgets
Your son learns from you not just when you specifically teach him something…
But also more so when you have no idea that he's observing.
When you come back home defeated but manage to smile he learns hardness.
When you apologize to him or other people he learns humility.
When you wake up early in the morning and work with hard labor he learns obedience.
When you smile after you lose he learns determination.
You may assume that he is busy watching cartoon programs or playing with his friends.
But his heart is quietly gathering your responses as treasures responses that will determine his fate.
He'll remember how you battled for his family.
He'll remember how you handled a temper did you scream or take a breath?
He'll remember how you spoke about other folks when they were not around.
❝ He may forget your words… but he will never forget your actions. ❞
• And finally The Man He'll One Day Be
One day your boy will arrive in this world no longer as little boy of yours,
But as a man with your mirror inside of him.
He can replace a bulb like you.
He can remain quiet in the same situation as you.
He can put hands together in prayer like he has learned from you when he never thought anyone to notice.
You will live on in him… without even trying.
Not by instruction but by illustration.
What do you want to leave behind?
Not money, acres, and material possessions alone, but strength, integrity, mercy, discipline, and grace.
You're not merely building your future.
You're unobtrusively building his.
❝ The world will see the father… in the way the son lives. ❞
तभी तो दुनिया पूछती है "क्या तुम्हारे माँ-बाप ने तुम्हें यही सिखाया है?"
So love him, lead him, and be genuine.
Because if you're not there, he'll pull your shadow and maybe even your light into his own story.
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